Mara Ellison, 36
Chicago, IL
Fit
95%
she/her
Cis woman
Queer
Graphic designer
Open to kids
I design books for a living and keep too many houseplants alive out of stubbornness. I have never been married. I have wanted a life with a kid in it for a long time — not as a project, as a household. I like men who know who they are.
Kids, carefully
No kids of my own. Open, and not in a theoretical way. I understand a coparenting calendar is not a vibe. It is a life.
What Mara is looking for
A lasting partnership
Curiosity
Honesty
Art
Steadiness
Good food
The Art Institute until my feet hurt, then a late lunch where nobody is in a rush.
I have dated trans men before. You will not be my education. You will be a person I am trying to love well.
If you match
Next open evening · Sunday, October 18
A window table on Clark. Low stakes. Either of you can leave without a speech.