How myAQ works

You are here as a man, not a situation.

myAQ is a place for trans men who want a serious partner, and for people of any gender who want to date them as men. Many of you are coming out of a marriage. Some of you are scared of being alone. That is a life, not a spectacle.

If there is a child, they stay off the site

No names, no photos, no school, no identifying stories. You may say you are a parent and how your week works. That is all a stranger is entitled to.

Trans men are not a category of fetish

You can be a woman, a man, trans, not trans. You are here if you want a partner. Profiles that treat transition as entertainment, a surprise, or a kink are removed. He is a man looking for someone. So are you.

Divorce is context, not confession

You do not owe a first message the whole legal history. You can say it ended, that it was right, and that you are here for something that lasts.

The calendar can be visible. The household is not.

If your week is already spoken for in places, say so. People who cannot live with that can leave early. That is kindness. The detailed notebook โ€” trades, receipts, drafts โ€” lives in Household, off the dating profile.

Give first. Do not arrive empty.

Warmth comes back as warmth. You are not here to be filled by a stranger, and you are not here to collect a parent for your Tuesdays. How myAQ thinks about love is written down in one short essay.

Report and leave

If someone pushes for photos of your kid, deadnames you, or treats your life as a problem to solve, pass and report. myAQ is small on purpose.

Ready when you are

Start with people who already understand the shape of the week.